Monday, July 30, 2012

Never Say Die..



Life, looks like a simple four lettered word, but hardly anyone has been able to comprehend it completely, as to what lies within it, having said so , there is no harm in taking yet another shot at comprehending life in all its glory.

Life as I see it is like a sinosoidal wave , having its highs and lows all in a periodic manner. Life sometimes can be so unreasonable and unpredictable. Within seconds the wheel of life takes unexpected turns , ones which are totally beyond your imagination. Sometimes they leave you speechless and dumbfounded.

At one point of time you can find yourself standing at the topmost cliff, almost ready to touch the sky, and feel like stamping the whole world underneath your feet with glee. And then the next very moment, you find yourself in the most abysmal of depths, with no ray of light reaching you.

Things go beyond your control, that you had never imagined ever would. You try hard to change the course of things, but fail in that attempt. You do not find any light at the end of the tunnel, everything seems dark and grey.

Then the sense of fear, lack of purpose and worthlessness creeps into your  mind in such a manner that you find no way to escape. You feel helpless, ditched and cornered by the hands of fate, in the difficult terrains of life.

That is when you sense that death is the only way out of all the pains and sufferings, as you cannot take any more of it. Killing yourself is the best thing you feel in such a situation. And what if, even death evades you? Think hard what would you do in such a situation?

Running away is not a solution, it is a mere sign that is associated with cowardice.Before surrendering to the hands of fate, just stop once and give yourself that one last chance to cling on to life, and assuring yourself that everything is going to be alright again, as there can be nothing that can go worse than this. Succumbing to the situation and giving up is real easy believe me, what is difficult is sticking your head in there and fighting it out. It would be wise to face the brunt of fate boldly by looking into its eyes, until either fate defeats you or you knock  it down and emerge victorious.

Nothing comes easily, no one said it will. A hell lot of grit and patience is required.
That is when , you need the support of your friends and family, whose presence makes a world of difference in difficult situations.

Self-belief and determination are the two important ingredients which if mixed with hope and bit of faith can even conquer what destiny holds for you.

Encountering the harsh realities of life and coming out triumphant is the best feeling on earth. What it brings with it is a SMILE , which is here to stay.
Partly to remind you of your glorious victory on the eventful tryst with destiny, and partly to inspire the others around you who may go through similar terrains at some juncture of their lives, to remind them to face their fears boldly and to “Never say Die”.

Always remember , it is you who creates your destiny, not the other way round.